Thursday, April 19, 2012

3 Mistakes To Avoid When Learning To Give A Blowjob

If you are trying to brush up on your oral sex skills, the first thing that you need to learn about is the worst mistakes that you can ever make. Although you might think that any blowjob is better than not receiving one at all, most men would wish that you to be skilled at it.

They would most definitely prefer not getting a blowjob at all rather than receiving a bad one, especially if you are a ‘teeth-grazer’ or if you treat a penis like it’s your grandmother’s fine china!

So if you do want better skills in bed and want to learn how to give the best blowjob, here are the top three mistakes you should steer clear of:

Mistake #1: Not Lending Him A Helping Hand

Perhaps one of the most common mistakes that women make when learning how to give a BJ is not using their hands enough. Remember that just like your vagina, there are secret crevices, curves and veins around his shaft and below his balls which require attention.

In order for you to explore these zones and give him some oral loving that he is not bound to forget anytime soon, make sure to lend him a helping hand. Move your hands up and down his shaft within the area which is not covered by your mouth. The motion of your hands and lips should be one fluid movement, which makes him feel as if you are taking it all in.

Mistake #2: Giving Him The Death Grip 

There’s a thin line between sucking firmly, and gripping him with your mouth as if you are trying to strangle a live chicken. If you don’t want to give him the death grip – either using your mouth of your hands, make sure to always listen to his moans and groans.

If the sounds that he is making are moans of pleasure rather than groans of pain – then you are on the right track.

Mistake #3:  Ignoring His Balls


You might hear how some men refer to their genitalia as his ‘package’ and this is because the shaft of his penis should not be separated from their cousins, which are his balls.

While going down on him, make sure that you are well acquainted with his balls. Use your free hand to caress his balls, try not to squeeze too hard- tickle, tease them and do whatever it is that you want to do, just don’t ignore them!

By avoiding the top three mistakes that women make when learning how to give a BJ, you will be on your way towards mastering the art of giving head.

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Monday, April 16, 2012

10 Tips For Better Fellatio

Use the following 10 Tips to learn how to give the best blowjob and your man will want to be with you each every night, more than you can even imagine!

1) Don’t use teeth when sucking unless you are giving a playful nibble here and there, otherwise most men won’t like it as it can really hurt!

2) Move your head up and down gently and use your hands as well.

3) Put your hands on his chest and legs and gently touch his testicles, using your touch for extra sexual tension.

4) Always be in a comfortable position where you can change your angles quickly and easily.

5) Please your man with enthusiasm, simply... enjoy it too!

6) Use different techniques and moves, diversify your strokes, licks and sucks as it will create extra excitement.
 
7) Ask your man about feedback, faster slower, softer, etc. He knows what feels best!

8) Start slowly, don’t rush at the beginning, Gently kiss the penis, stroke it a bit and then take it into your mouth.

9) Men have a sensitive spot that is called frenulum. It is placed below the head of the penis. If you can activate it in a good moment, it can give your man extra sensation!

10) Always be safe, make sure your partner doesn’t have STD’s, any viruses or sexually-transmitted diseases, use condoms for extra safety if necessary.

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Friday, April 13, 2012

The Guide To Giving A Good Blow Job

You don’t have to be Jenna Jameson to know that every guy likes receiving head.

Going down on a guy may not be every gal’s cup of tea while others might really love it but when one does choose to go downtown, it takes skill to ensure the act is pleasurable for both parties...

Read on to learn how to give a blow job that he won’t soon forget.

Talk It Out

It’s very important to know what he likes and what you like; are you a swallower or would you prefer he let you know when he’s about to come? Does he like a lot of saliva?

Get some of these subjects out of the way before you get down to it; this will keep you both happy.

Use A Condom If Needed

If you’re going down on a new dude and don’t know where he’s been, it’s best to use a condom. STIs like herpes and gonorrhoea are spread not only through intercourse, but oral sex, too. Use a flavoured condom if you hate the taste of latex, and be sure it’s not lubricated, as spermicide may numb your mouth.

Use Your Tongue

Blow jobs don’t just begin once you’ve enveloped your man with your mouth. Use your tongue to lick and moisten his member from head to base, tickling and teasing him. Be sure to run your tongue across the vein on the underside of his penis, which is a very sensitive area.

Go Easy On The Teeth

Sure, you can lightly use your teeth to nibble and tease. When you get down to it, though, gently cover your teeth with your lips to ensure he’s not screaming for the wrong reasons.

Be As Hands-On As Possible

Don’t just hang your hands limply at your sides; keep them busy! While you suck, slide your hand up and down the shaft as if you were giving him a hand job. Grip his butt cheeks, his hips, and massage his testicles. You can also give yourself some love while you’re at it which is sure to drive him wild.

Don’t Forget The Boys

His testicles are part of the whole package, so be sure to gently lick, suck, as well as massage them with your free hand. Pay close attention to the perineum, which is that patch of skin between his butt and scrotum; gently stroke it with your finger, which will bring him to new heights.

Look Him In The Eyes

To give you both an added thrill, be sure to look up into your guy’s eyes every once in a while.
He’ll enjoy watching, and you’ll love seeing the pleasure you’re providing him with.

Hum

Humming during fellatio won’t only convey how much you’re enjoying yourself, but he’ll also feel the vibrations.

No Need For Deep Throat

Contrary to popular belief, great oral sex does not require you take him in deeper and deeper.
Activating your gag reflex is not sexy, so just go as far as you can.

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Wednesday, April 11, 2012

How To Give A Beautiful Blowjob

Here’s the most important thing I’ve learned from all of this: you can rock a man’s world in a big way without even remotely going deep throat. The secret lies in knowing a little anatomy.

Generally, the most sensitive parts of a man’s package are:
  1. The head—the smooth, round part at the top.
  2. The frenulum—the cute little flap on the underside of the head. It’s similar to the little flappy thing under your tongue, only smaller.
  3. The perineum—the area between the balls and the butt.
  4. The balls.
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Do you see “very bottom part of the shaft” mentioned anywhere above? Nope.  It’s just not all that important to get this part of the penis in your mouth. So why torture yourself? It’s not as if you can win an award for doing it (that I know of). But let's get back to how to give a blow job...

What follows is how to rock a man’s world without going deep throat. It’s certainly not the only way or the best way give head and it might not even be a good way if your husband likes different things than mine.

It’s just my way. Copy what you want. Ignore what you want.

Part 1: The Tease

I very lightly brush my husband’s shaft with my fingertips while I kiss and lick other parts of his body. Then I lube him up with some coconut oil. I like coconut oil because it’s real food. It has little to no taste—unlike most commercial lubes that taste medicinal. Lube is important because the skin on the shaft of the penis is thin and sensitive to chafing. If you’re going to be using your hands on your man, you need lube. Otherwise, he’s going to get pretty uncomfortable. Alternatively, you can lick him up and down and spit on him a little, using your saliva as lube. Whatever works.

I kiss and lick the shaft. I circle the head with the tip of my tongue. I tickle the frenulum with my tongue. I lick his balls, his perineum—basically everything. Occasionally, I suck his balls. This drives him insane, so I don’t do it for very long or very often. I might do it once or twice during a session. That’s it. I don’t do this licking and ball sucking in any set order, either. It’s whatever I think up in the moment. As I lick him here and there, I’m using my hands in other places. I might cup his balls with one hand while I massage his chest with the other, for instance. Or, if I’m licking his shaft, I might gently press my fingers into his perineum.

I progress from lighter licks (just brushing his skin with the tip of my tongue) to harder and harder ones (using my tongue on him as if he were an ice cream cone).

I don’t tease my husband for all that long. He’s more of a Bobbing kind of guy. Use your own best judgment as to how long this stage should last. Note that the longer you tease, the closer you’ll have him to climax when you move onto the Bob. If you are worried about your stamina, tease more, bob less.

Part 2: The Bob

I put one hand around the bottom of his shaft. Then I slowly bring my lips over his head. At first, I’m all lips and tongue. I roll my tongue around the head. I bring my lips around the edges of the head. Stuff like that. Eventually, when he seems like he’s beside himself from it all, I move into the bobbing thing.
I use my hand as an extension of my mouth. This prevents me from having to go anywhere near the gag area. I try to do this seamlessly, so my hand and mouth are working together to put tension on the top of his penis, gently pulling open the hole where the semen comes out. (I’m sure this “hole where the semen comes out” has an official name, but I didn’t feel like looking it up).

As I bring the shaft into my mouth, I slide the head along the roof of my mouth. This seems to generate more pleasure than just bringing the head to the back of the throat, but I mostly do this to avoid accidentally gagging myself.

I start with slow, even bobs, progressing to faster ones as my husband responds.
When my husband is about to climax, his penis gets harder, arcs back a little bit and starts to throb. I don’t know if all men are that way, but I thought I would mention it. My husband usually likes to warn me that he’s about to bust open, which is nice, but not necessary (for me. You might be different). I swallow, but not all women do. I don’t think it makes much of a difference either way. If you are not going to swallow, finish him off with a hand job or with intercourse. If you do the hand job thing, consider allowing him to ejaculate on you- perhaps on your breasts.

If you think that’s gross, that’s fine. I’m not trying to talk you into doing anything that you find uncomfortable. I’m quite certain that your man will be quite happy with whatever you do at this point. If your technique was good enough to get him to climax, he’s not going to give you a failing grade because you didn’t swallow or let him get you sticky.

That said, I do want to mention that our beliefs about what’s gross and what’s not largely stem from socialization. If you don’t believe me, just think about what babies and toddlers have been known to do with their poop and boogers. We teach our children that bodily fluids are gross. That doesn’t necessarily mean that all of them are. If you allow yourself to think of semen with an open mind, perhaps it won’t seem so gross to you.

Just a thought.

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Tuesday, April 10, 2012

The Origin Of “Blow Job”

The phrase “Blow Job,” for oral-genital sex performed on a male, is surprisingly new in terms of its widespread understanding and usage.

It started to appear in slang dictionaries in the 1960s, around the time pop icon Andy Warhol released his film Blow Job, containing several explicit depictions of the act. Earlier the term had been used by college men, prostitutes, and printed in underground pornography, but it was not yet commonplace.

To many Americans in the 1940s and 1950s a “blow job” was a faster-then-the-speed-of-sound “jet airplane.” It took off and gave everyone nearby a “blow job.” The Thesaurus of American Slang (1953) records an example of this usage from an issue of the San Francisco Examiner in 1945: “A P-59 jet propelled Airacomet, affectionately called the ‘blow job’ by flyers, will make several flights in 1946.”

Linguist think the sexual connotation of “Blow Job” evolved from “Blow Off,” an expression meaning to finish off, to climax, to end.

“Blow Off” in this sense is related to “Blow Off Steam,” to put an end to a emotionally frustrating experience. When a prostitute gave a client a blow job she was helping him “blow off” the steam of sexual arousal.
In the 1930s, street-walkers offered oral sex with the phrase “I’ll blow you off.” It suggests ‘I’ll cool you down,’ ‘I’ll release your steam.’

Some linguists think the term “Blow Job” evolved gradually from an eighteenth century European name for a prostitute, blower. A popular name for penis at the time was “Whore Pipe,” and it is easy to see how the woman who played the instrument came to be called a “blower.” But was the act called a “blow job?” There’s no indication of that.

Today the word is commonplace, uttered as often by women as men.

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